Bored to death in bed? Here is how you can bring sexy back into your relationship

Don't let your amazing sex life disappear into the oblivion. Photo: Shutterstock/IndiaPicture

There was once a time when you couldn't keep your hands off each other. And now, you would much rather watch Netflix than get frisky.

Isn't it sad how lethargy replaces passion once you get too comfortable with each other? Now, you are either too zoned out to spice things up or too jaded with the three-minute wham, bam, thank you ma'am routine.

If you miss the spark, but don't know what to do about it, fret not--we are here, at your service. Just begin by paying heed to our simple, yet effective (and free of cost) advice.

Communication Can Be Sexy Too, Try it Out
Don't let your amazing sex life disappear into the oblivion. Pause and think. What's turning those steamy night sessions into brawling matches? Is it the lack of communication or done-to-death foreplay moves? In either case, the solution is the same: you've got to talk it out.

If you can spend hours discussing Fawad Khan's future in Bollywood and India's stance at the latest UN summit, you can very well dedicate a few minutes to discuss the problem.

Ask your partner where you are going wrong. Tell him what he needs to do to turn you on, and return the favour. The more you open up to him, the stronger your bond will become. 

Introduce Him to Your Secret World of Fantasies
Maybe it's just the mundane lovemaking that is driving the excitement right out of the door. Probably you are out of ideas because you have tried every imaginable sex position. Like, what else can you do to top it, right? You are wrong.

If you wish to strengthen your sexual connection, lead him to pastures he's never been to before. And by that, of course, we mean your hidden desires.

Share your fantasies with him, no matter how embarrassing they seem. Also, don't just stop there. Enact them. It's going to take your sex sessions to another level, altogether. Trust us.

Isn't it sad how lethargy replaces passion once you get too comfortable with each other? Photo: Shutterstock/IndiaPicture

Do Kegel Exercises For a Fitter Vag
Are you and your bae sexually fit? That's one question you need to ask yourself. At times, the bleakness of it all arises from a lack of good health.

If you wish to make sex more exciting, practice some Kegel exercises. It will work your pelvic muscles, making them more responsive.Begin by tightening your muscles down there. Pretend you are trying to stop urinating, midstream. Now, hold the contraction for a few seconds and then release. Repeat this ten times every day.

Don't Have Stressed Sex
Wondering what's that? Well, just because your partner is in the mood, don't force yourself to do it. If it does not bring you any pleasure, it will be equally bland for your man. So, before you decide to have sex: de-stress!

A bad day at work or school might have left you all hassled up. And if your brain is still not at ease--sex will bring you no bliss.

Take a long, warm bath or listen to some soothing music before you decide to make the move.

Also read: A better immune system and 4 other things that happen to you when you have sex